In the words of Justin Bieber ‘You should go and love yourself’


I’ve been having a bit of a tough time at the moment, not being able to find a job was really getting me down (I started my new job today though and I couldn’t be happier about it).

Anyway this is a post I’ve been working on for a while, I want to talk about self love and the importance of caring for yourself. Self love is something that is often overlooked. I think it’s important that we’re a little selfish sometimes and look out for ourselves a bit more.

This is something I fully well know I’m bad at, I eat badly and I don’t really exercise so it’s no wonder I feel crappy most of the time. It’s more than that I know, it’s about taking time for yourself, even if it’s just 5 minutes.


So I’ve been thinking about it a lot and come up with a few things that I think will help you care for yourself a little more. (Let’s hope I can take my own advice for once).

  • Turn off your phone – Even if it’s for an hour, it’s something. I find myself getting way to obsessed with things to do with my phone like waiting for a text/email back and it’s just unneeded stress. Pulling yourself away from your phone for a little bit is always good.
  • ‘You don’t have to do it if you don’t want to’ – This goes for blogging, feeling like you have to go to a party or even doing the dishes, anything. If you’re not feeling up to doing it then don’t. I know sometimes it feels like we have so many obligations but we need to stop putting so much unneccessary pressure on ourselves.
  • Don’t blame yourself – Life is never going to be easy and straightforward and it’s important to remember that. Things do go wrong and it’s that simple, don’t blame yourself for things out of your control.
  • You don’t have to have it together all of the time – Cry, speak to someone, just let it out every once in a while. Bottling up your emotions just causes more stress in the long run.
  • Treat yourself – Getting yourself a little treat every once in a while isn’t going to hurt and it can really lift your spirits.
  • Treat yourself how you would treat a friend – Care for yourself and think of what is best for you. It’s important to be selfish sometimes.
  • Take some time for yourself everyday – Even if it’s 15 minutes, just give yourself some time to do what makes you happy.
  • Be Proud of who you are – I know this can seem really hard but life is too short not to. Let you true self shine and don’t give a fuck what anyone else thinks.

I truly believe that self care is super important and something that is constantly overlooked. I hope that you enjoyed reading this and agree with what I’ve said.

What makes you feel relaxed when you’re stressed? Is there something you do to make yourself happy?

Hope you all are having an amazing weekend.

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  1. September 2, 2017 / 4:50 pm

    I think unplugging and putting down our phones in this day and age is so much more important than people realize! I read that Miranda Kerr has turned her bedroom into a ‘digital free zone’ and has a rule that cellphones aren’t allowed in there. I think that is an excellent idea and want to implement it in my house… just a quite place to unwind without the buzz of emails/texts/calls distracting us from relaxation.

    • September 2, 2017 / 5:18 pm

      Thats such a good idea, i’d love to do something like that. Just gives you a place were none of that stuff matters. Think nowadays it’s just so easy to become so obbsessed with your phone that taking a break is so important

  2. September 2, 2017 / 6:44 pm

    This is a lovely post 💖 it’s really important to take care of yourself, and still allow yourself to feel shitty now and then too. Hope your first day went well xx

    • September 2, 2017 / 7:43 pm

      Thank you, glad you enjoyed ❤️ it really is and definitely something that we neglact sometimes! Thank you, it really did xx

  3. September 3, 2017 / 8:02 am

    I think taking time to unwind and step back is so important nowadays especially with things like social media its so easy to become overwhelmed by it. You gotta take care of yourself 😊
    ive also nominated you for the mystery blogger award. Check my latest post for all the info xxx

    • September 3, 2017 / 3:17 pm

      Exactly like there’s so much good that can come from it but always so much negativity. It’s so important to not let youeself get consumed! Youre so right 🤗 ooo thank you lovely, will check it out xxx

  4. September 3, 2017 / 8:29 pm

    Im so pleased for you, well done on the job my lovely xx. Of course, you know Im going to agree wholeheartedly with stepping away from the phone, its so important. I meditate, every day, for between 20 and 40 minutes. Its how i sort the shit out in my head! I also end every day with a hot bath and an indulgent bubble bath. We cant take care of others if we dont take care of us xxxx

    • September 4, 2017 / 6:08 am

      Thank you so much xx see that’s so good and just so important. Like it doesn’t have to take up loads of time or cost alot but just helps a lot. That’s so good that you have a routine like that to relax yourself 😻 that’s so true, we always just forget about ourselves xxxx

  5. September 3, 2017 / 10:29 pm

    I’ve been struggling with self-care lately so I really needed this. I always say I’m focusing on myself more than others, but after reading your tips I realized I don’t do it as often as I should. Thank you for opening my eyes!

    • September 4, 2017 / 6:09 am

      That’s okay, thank you for reading and I’m glad it was helpful to you! It’s so easy to just forget about ourselves sometimes! Hope you have some better luck wih it, I know I need to be a bit kinder to myself sometimes

  6. September 6, 2017 / 7:00 pm

    This is such a lovely post and congratulations on your new job! I definitely need to take on a few of these self care tips though so thank you for this post 💖

    Samantha |

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